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What is Theology?

2/28/2021

 

THEOLOGY

You don’t have to
go anywhere,
to be with God.
He is with you now.
 
You don’t have to
say anything,
to communicate with God.
For he knows you well.
 
You don’t have to
give any time to God,
for he is time,
and he gives this to you.
 
You don’t have
to believe in God,
for he gives you life
and believes in you.
 
You don’t have to
apologise to God
for he is love,
and has forgiven everything.
 
You don’t have to
ask God for anything,
for it has already
been given to you.
 
You don’t have to
think of God as ‘out there’
for he is already in you,
as you are in him.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Write down your theology - your understanding of what God is.
2. What is your relationship with God? How would you describe this? ​


Day 341 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is Writer's Block?

2/27/2021

 

WRITER'S BLOCK 

I have never suffered from
writer's block.
I have never worried about
the words not coming,
or writing a daily quota.
 
You see, for me
the words are a by-product,
and not the main objective.
My aim is to sit quietly and
this is the process that may,
or may not, produce words.
 
The real joy, wonder
and contentment comes
in the process of sitting quietly.
For this is the block we can 
all build upon each day.



PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. When do you sit quietly? 
2. When do you write the words that are within you? 


Day 340 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is effective Decision Making?

2/26/2021

 

DECISION MAKING

No matter how old you are,
you can still change the world.
No matter what you’ve been through,
you can still change the world.
No matter what your current situation is,
you can still change the world.

It only takes a moment,
one new idea,
a different thought,
an unusual event,
a chance encounter,
an unexpected conversation,
a surprise meeting, or
some words of encouragement
for you to begin.

This is why you’re here,
and it will happen.
You are about to start afresh.
So, get ready to change the world.

And if you don’t believe this,
then how can it happen?
If you don’t think this is possible
then how can it begin?
And, if you don’t see that I am waiting
to help you, then how can you answer?

Your age is important,
for we all need your experience.
What you’ve been through really counts,
for we all need  your wisdom.
The fact that you are still here, tells us,
that you can change the world.

Everything that has happened
has led you here.
 Your plan is unfolding as it should.
And you are reading this now,
precisely because, this is the moment
you decide to change the world.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Well, are you going to join us? Can you help us to change the world? 
2. This is day one of starting afresh - where exactly will you begin?


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How can we use Inverse Proportion?

2/25/2021

 

​INVERSE PROPORTION

By stepping back
from the world.
By spending time
on our own.
By moving further
into our being.

And by going deeper
into ourselves,
we in fact move away
from all notions of self,
to be closer to where
we truly belong.

By going inwards
we really go outwards,
and we see more and more,
that we are connected
to all that ever was,
and ever will be.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. How are you learning to go deeper into yourself? 
2. What is your 'self'?  


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What is the most important Keyword?

2/24/2021

 

KEYWORD

Imagine if we could find a way to work together
that was for the benefit of those most in need,
as well as our own personal interests.
 
Imagine if governments across the world were to
work collaboratively, not on the basis of trade,
but in looking after everyone on our planet.
 
Imagine if all religions and beliefs were to act
together, to help all of those in need.
 
Imagine if all situations of conflict could
be transformed, now, to communities of peace.
 
Imagine if we could understands our true purpose,
and could live this in every moment.
 
Imagine if we could find something so precious
that we give our whole life to it.
 
Imagine that one word
holds the key to all of this.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. What is this keyword for you? 
2. Now that you know this keyword, what are you going to do? ​


Day 337 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is Kindling Kindness?

2/23/2021

 

KINDLING

 We all depend on positive feedback,
confirmation that we are doing well,
being told that we are making
great progress, and  that we are loved.
  
We all thrive when others show
interest, say 'thank you', tell us
(and others), that we are amazing, and,
when they encourage us onwards.
 
These inputs from others create
new energy within us, for each comment
and smile is like kindling for the fire,
burning within each of us.
 
Kindling comes from the word kind, 
and means to initiate and build kindness,
in every thought, in every word,   ​
 in every moment and with every person.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. What kindling  have you created and shared today?
​2. Who is giving you kindling that is sustaining you​?
3. What piece of kindling could you initiate and share right now? 


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What is the best definition of Work?

2/22/2021

 

WORK

Work is simply a method
of engaging in prayer.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. What is your work all about?
​2. What would you really like to work on? 


Day 335 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What does Becoming mean?

2/21/2021

 

BECOMING

Be with me
at the start of the day.
Be with me
throughout the day.
Be with me
at the end of the day.
 
Be with me
in all our thoughts.
Be with me
in all our actions.
Be with me
in all our relationships.
 
Be with me
in all we were.
Be with me
in all we are.
Be with me
in all we will become.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Define what each of these means for you - be, being and becoming?
2. What is the practical day to day outworking of each? How are they each made visible in your day?


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What does RSVP mean for us?

2/20/2021

 

RSVP

Inclusion is the ongoing
invitation for collaboration,
participation, sharing and caring,
that we send out to others.
 
Inclusion is our offer
that requires acceptance.
And not everyone will say yes.
You cannot take them all with you.
 
And so, inclusion is a continuous
and everlasting invitation.
It is our individual, organisational
and global, lifelong purpose.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Who will you send an invitation of inclusion to today? 
2. How is you organisation being inclusive  to all its staff, those it serves and the wider international community?
3. How are you reaching out globally to include others ?​


Day 333 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

How do we find Meaning for our life?

2/19/2021

 

MEANING

 I seem to spend so much time searching
for meaning and looking for happiness.
Perhaps I need to start in a different place.
For when I see myself
at the centre of everything,
it’s easy to lose my way.
 
The first step I think, is to go deeper within myself
to that place of nothingness.
It is here that I find all that I need.
For  here is the reservoir of love,
where I can become, at the same time,
both all powerful and yet powerless.
 
When I then act, or talk, or interact from this place
I do so from a position of all-ness rather than self.
By trusting in love, I become one with love.
For all becomes possible,
when it is no longer about
my narrow definition of self, or purpose.
 
I find the meaning of all in this place within me,
in power and powerlessness,
in all-ness and nothingness.
For I am no longer separate from everything,
adrift on the sea.
I am the sea.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Can you shut out the world and go deeper within yourself? 
2. Can you sit for a few minutes in the place of nothingness? ​


Day 332 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is the best approach for effective Teamwork?

2/18/2021

 

​TEAMWORK

You must work with us.
If you go off on your own
to do your own thing,
then it’s solely about you.
 
If we could all work together
then everything becomes about us,
We can help each other
to achieve all that we should.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Who is on your team? 
2. How are you helping them to achieve all that they should? 


Day 331 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

How can each of us add value that lasts?

2/17/2021

 

VALUE ADDED

When we go through our list
of previous jobs and roles,
we tend to think of the title,
responsibilities and payment.
 
We may even reflect
on the people we worked with
and some of the work we did.
 
And if we keep going
we get to that same point
in every role, and hope that
we did something good,
something that lasts.
 
We also realise that our presence
becomes embedded as value added 
in the lives of others,
who after we leave, take their turn
and make their contribution.
 
So remember, our job outcomes
are realised long after we are gone.
And when we look back we see that
we did something good,
something that lasts.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE
1. Who did you add value for?
2. How are your job outcomes growing in each role or job that you had? ​


Day 330 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

When was your Birthday Party?

2/16/2021

 

BIRTHDAY PARTY 
 
There is a party in our village
when a new baby is born.
Families all get together
on a Saturday morning at 11am
to meet the new arrival, and
welcome this new person to our world.
 
We celebrate with smiles and hugs
giving thanks for all our lives.
We shed a small tear of remembrance
for those who have left us.
These little parties are literally, staging posts, 
and the lifeblood of our village.
 
We call this a  'Birth Day' party,
for the time of our first days.
It’s the informal coming together of
family, friends and community.
It’s our call to journey with the child
and for us all to begin again.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. How might you 'journey' with us and 'begin again' this Saturday morning at 11am?
2. Who would have been around at your Birth Day - and what do you imagine they said?
 


Day 329 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is a Perfect Library?

2/15/2021

 

 GLASS BOOKCASE

He must have been a senior lawyer
or perhaps a judge.
The extensive law library housed
in a beautiful glass bookcase
across three walls of his study,
bears witness to a serious role and
a long commitment to his work.
His large oak desk still has the
files of papers he was working on.
 
He died two years ago
and his ground floor apartment
 remains largely untouched,
although the conservatory wall
is in need of some paint.
We view the property as potential buyers
and see family photos of a grandad,
and a bedroom left as if it was
 just tidied up for our viewing.
 
His home is full of outdated furniture
and we learn that,
after our judge  lost his wife,
he lived on here for years,
immersed in his retirement.
This flat will be sold and cleared out,
except for the glass bookcase,
which I think, will  remain,
waiting for new books to arrive.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. What books would you treasure and keep in your glass bookcase?
​2. What in your life, is your long term commitment to?​


Day 328 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is the meaning of St Valentine's Day?

2/14/2021

 

​SAINT VALENTINE'S DAY

Commit yourself to love
with all your heart,
for this is your passion
that is above all passions.

Commit yourself to love
with all your soul,
for this is the part of you
that is pure and eternal.

Commit yourself to love
with all your mind,
for this will uncover all
that you will ever know.
 
Nurture and cherish
the love that is within you
and the love that you are.
With all your heart,
with all your soul,
and with all your mind.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. How can you commit yourself to love on this Saint Valentine's Day?
2. What does it mean to nurture and cherish the love within you - with all your heart, all your soul and all your mind? 


Day 327 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is the Work that we should be doing?

2/13/2021

 

ENERGY SWITCH
 
Don’t get consumed by it.
Don’t get overwhelmed by it.
Don’t give all of your thoughts,
energy and time to it.
 
It is passing through.
It will soon be gone.
And you have more important
work to do.
 
Switch your thoughts, energy and time
to activities worthy of your gifts,
your generosity and your love.
For this, by far, is the best deal.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. What is consuming your energy and taking up so much time, that you do not need? 
2. How can you make better use of your gifts, your generosity and your love?  


Day 326 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is the best way to Waken up?

2/12/2021

 

AUTO START
 
Open your eyes.
Turn on your ears.
Unleash your tongue.
Unfold your hands.
Switch on your speech.
 
We start up our five senses
every morning, in a seamless routine,
without acknowledgement or thanks,
for these most amazing gifts.
So, let us pause and say,
 
Thank you for my seeing today.
Thank you for my hearing today.
Thank you for my taste today.
Thank you for my  touch today.
Thank you for my voice today.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. Which of your five senses are most important to you?
2. Can you describe other senses that you have? I have a sense of ...


Day 325 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is waiting in our Night-time?

2/11/2021

 

WAKE-UP CALL
 

In the quiet of night-time,
at three in the morning,  
when I am supposed to be asleep.
My head is full
of problems to be solved,
and worries about those I love.
 
Instead of these worldly concerns
taking me away from God,
I find they bring me closer to him.
My worries are an open door
to be with love, and
to work out what we should do.
 
But this is more
than problem solving,
or a business meeting.
This is a joyful relationship
with love, at now, four in the morning,
whilst the world sleeps.
 
And he is there, every night,
for each of us.
Waiting to be with us.
Waiting to be asked,
to sort out the troubles
and worries that keep us awake.
 
If we look out our window
we see that the problems
that consume our thinking, are
in fact a blessing, a wake-up call,
an invitation and a joyful reminder, 
of the love that waits for us in the night.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. Is there anything that is worrying you?
2. When will you plan an early morning call?


Day 324 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

How does we Measure what is Important?

2/10/2021

 

SCALES

What if in the
bigger scheme of things,
failure, is
just as important
as a success?

What if in the
bigger scheme of things,
inactivity, is
just as important
as activity?

What if in the
bigger scheme of things,
poverty and pain, are
just as valuable
as riches and fame?

What if in the
bigger scheme of things,
failure to achieve anything,
was just as important
as achieving something?

What if in the
bigger scheme of things,
periods of desolation and depression,
are just as important as
times of excitement and jubilation?

What if in the
bigger scheme of things,
we are using the wrong scales?
What if there are no scales
and that everything is one?

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. How do you measure what is important to you?

Day 323 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is a Statement of Loss?

2/9/2021

 

STATEMENT OF LOSS
 
Today is my Dad’s anniversary.
He died eleven years ago today.
I still miss him.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. Who do you miss?
2. How will you remember and celebrate them today?


Day 322 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

What is a Personal Audit?

2/8/2021

 
​
AUDIT

 
You have wisdom
Beyond your years.
You have understanding
Beyond this world.
You have gifts
Beyond all imagining.
 
You have strength
Beyond all constraints
You have foresight.
Beyond all reason.
You have courage
Beyond all danger.
 
You have joy
beyond all pain.
You have hope
Beyond all suffering.
You have light
Beyond all darkness.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. This is your personal audit. Remember to be grateful for your gifts and blessings - and to celebrate your life every day.

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What is our Purpose?

2/7/2021

 

ZERO SUM GAME
 
There is nothing,
ever,
to be afraid of.
For love holds you
and will always care for you.
You, were made to smile.
 
There is nothing,
ever,
to be frightened of.
For love holds you.
and is there when you need help.
You, were made to laugh.
 
There is nothing,
ever,
to worry or stress about.
For love holds you.
and will never let you down.
You, were made to shine.
 
There is nothing,
ever,
to make you anxious.
For love holds you
and will never let you go.
You, were made to be free.
 
There is nothing,
ever,
to fear.
For love holds you
forever and ever.
And you, were made to be happy.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. Can you reach out and trust in love?
2. Can you let love hold you and smile, laugh and shine?
3. Can you journey with love to be free and to be happy?


Day 320 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

How can we build a Kinder World?

2/6/2021

 

​KINDNESS
 

Personal development
is not about me alone.
For my personal development is dependent
upon many others, especially those
who I interact with for food, work, safety,
security, energy, health, friendship and love.
 
Personal development
is therefore about all of us.
It’s about us working together
and looking after each other,
in ways that enable us all
to live happily, and to grow, together.
 
Personal development
is about us reaching out
and giving to others, so that
we can all be safe and well.
And yet, in our world we see so many
living and dying  in shocking conditions.
 
We have been taught
to strive for more, put ourselves first
and hold onto everything.
But in our interconnected world, this
approach only serves to make life less secure
for ourselves, for our children and for others.
 
Kindness is much more
than a nice thing to do.
It is our emotional, rational and practical selves
acting through initiatives, responses and
actions to uncover who we are
and see what we can become.
 
Kindness is uncompromising and demanding.
It causes us to make choices.
It takes us out of our comfort zone.
It makes us look at the needs of others.
It enables us to understand who we really are.
Kindness is the heart of personal development.
 
It's time to put kindness on our curriculum.
It's time for  kindness policies to drive our
workplaces, schools, universities and governments.
And it's time for us to build
a collaboration of kindness in our world,
in our community, in our family and in our day. 

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. Where is kindness in your life and in your workplace?
2. How can you personally, become part of the collaboration of kindness in the world?


Day 319 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

How do we Read Between the Lines?

2/5/2021

 

READING BETWEEN THE LINES

The evening train derailed yesterday.
You could see it happening
in slow motion, as the engine
came off the tracks and lay there.
A sorry sight.

The driver died.
No one else was hurt.
Just wreckage and lives,
all turned upside down
in the moment.

And overnight the cranes came
and lifted the wreck.
Workmen cleared the track.
And life goes on as before,
for all around.

A new train arrived this morning.
Others will never know
what took place here.
It is, as if, for them, that
nothing has happened.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. What do you read between these lines?
2. What events and sadness are hidden in your lines?


Day 318 of Des McCabe's Personal Development Exercises

How can we become more Proactive?

2/4/2021

 

Reactive
 
The bell rings and
the dog salivates.
Waiting for the next
piece of food to arrive.
 
Just because
there is a stimulus,
doesn’t mean that
there has to be a response.
 
Just because
someone says something,
doesn’t mean that
you have to answer.
 
Just because
something happens,
doesn’t mean that
you have to act.
 
Just because your phone pings.
Just because an email arrives.
Just because the time says so.
Just because social media keeps talking.
 
It is when we stop being controlled
by external activities,
that we can begin to listen
to internal whispers.

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EXERCISE. ​
1. How do you invest your time?
2. Who or what can controls your behaviour at times?
3. What might you say 'no response' to?


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